I'm a smart, motivated, fun, young woman to spend some time with talking, going to events, etc. looking for friends and possibly a Dom.

I am a business marketing major with a creative writing minor. I am in school full time. I own my own business and am trying to make it grow while i'm in college so when i graduate in 2-3 years i'll be in a fairly good place in life.

I am a very creative and passionate person. I write poetry, paint, and love music (all kinds so long as it doesn't give me a head-ace). I've been listening to a lot of KUSC and Korean pop lately. I love doing and learning new things!

I love cirque du soleil, symphonies and operas. Unfortunately due to my budget i don't get top go as often as i'd like.

I am a bit of a geek. I play video and board games. I'm also into anime.

I enjoy being outdoors so long as it includes lots of sun screen and water. Unfortunately my folks arn't the outdoors type so i've never been fishing, camping, hiking, etc. I like sports and did play basketball but it wan't my forte as i am more the creative type.

I love talking. I think that to sit down and talk with someone is the best way to spend time because you really get to know each other. I love all animals and animals tend to like me too. Of course i like cats and horses though.

My life is about living without regrets and filling my life with positive things. This does not mean i live recklessly but that i enjoy everything i do and try not to do things i'll regret later.

Favorite:
Poet: So hard! Earl of Rochester / Mathew Arnold / Tennyson / Alpha Behn - AHH SO HARD!!!
Video Games: Splinter Cell and Call of duty.
Board game: Dominion.
Movie: Clockwork Orange
Book: Vampire Lestat
Artist: Jackson Pollack
Animal: CATS!!
Drink: water, Longshark Beer, Champagne
Food: You want me to pick!?!

Now to a few important things.
1. Please don't message me and expect for me to immediately start calling you Sir/etc. those titles are earned. If its part of your screen name thats one thing but i will not address you by a title for your ego's sake. I am putting this up because someone actually did this. kinda sad.

2. Even though i identify as submissive i am 90% dominant in my vanilla life. So one thing i really hate is when people coddle me or treat me like a baby. i don't mean in an age play way but in a 'your younger there for lesser than me in some way' kinda way. its disrespectful and rude. So please dont do it. If i think your doing this i'll just ask.

3. lastly, i am very "straight up" person. i'll be honest with you about what i think. I'm not going to be disrespectful and never mean to be but if i have a question: i'll ask or your doing something thats making me uncomfortable: i will tell you. thats how i am. and i expect the same in return.

Thanks!

You are Submissive
You are into or need to be dominated. You get turned on from someone else taking control and controlling you inside or out of the bedroom or dungeon. Switches are a mix of submissive and dominant.

Submissive
87%
Masochistic
67%
Fetishist
49%
Sadistic
41%
Dominant
40%

about the "into" and "curious about" lists below. "Into" does not mean "ive done and liked" it means i am "into" doing it. most of the stuff there i havent done but know that i would be at least 80% into doing it. the "curious about" means i am curious about doing it but for what ever reason (fear, depends on the person, etc.) its not at least 80% certainty.

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Fetishes (browse | bulk edit)

Into: corsets, !sex then cookies then more sex!, "but sir" is not a valid argument, "good fetish! ~click~ damnit already into", "good morning" blow jobs (giving), "slut" as a term of endearment, *being honest with play partners*, a man who can keep up with me in bed, a voice that calms, comforts and reassures, a welcome home blow job after work (giving),accents (everything to do with it), age play, all day cock sucking, always being there for you, anime (everything to do with it), art erotica (everything to do with it),ass play (everything to do with it), aural sex: seduction by voice, ball gags(receiving), beautiful eyes, beautiful eyes that captivate you, being a sub with a heart and a brain, being both gentle and strict with you, being healthy, because i told you to, being more complex than an anonymous list of fetishes could show, causing people to have to actually converse with me, finding out if they like *me* and not just what gets me off., being read to, being read to by alan rickman, being so close we can read each others minds, being someone's personal snuggle toy, being told i'm a good girl, being true to myself, bisexuality (everything to do with it), blindfolds(receiving), body paint (everything to do with it), bondage (receiving), bondage art, brain sex, breast bondage (everything to do with it), breast/nipple torture(receiving), bubble baths, bukkake (receiving), burning calories by fucking not exercise, calm, firm, authoritative instructions, chivalry, chocolate, clothes of a bygone age victorian, renaissance etc.., collar and lead/leash(everything to do with it), come hang out under my desk and entertain me while i check my email (giving), confident and secure dominants,conversation, corsets (wearing), costumes/dressing-up, cuddling with soft sexy women., cumming so hard that talking is impossible, dildos (everything to do with it), discipline (receiving), dominants who admit when they are wrong, dominants who are truly dominants, dominants who show respect to submissives, english literature (short stories, poetry...), erotic photography (everything to do with it), feeding you as you feed me, feeding you chocolate cake as i straddle you (receiving), female ejaculation,fingernails gently across my bare skin, foot massage, forcing her to do kinky things that embarrass her (receiving), friends that are into the same sick shit i am, friends with cuddling benefits, gagging/choked by cock,gamer geeks, genuine and deep submission, the heartfelt kind that comes from trust, respect, lust, and mental and emotional connection (everything to do with it), getting off on getting your partner off, getting turned on by rigorous intellectual debate, good poetry, guys that can cook, healthy bodies, high heels (wearing), honest men, not lying fucking assholes,humor, impact play, intellegence, intelligence (everything to do with it),intelligence and healthy sarcasm, intelligent sarcasm and smart assery(everything to do with it), kinbaku, kitten (everything to do with it), kitten play(everything to do with it), knowing that i have pleased you, lace (everything to do with it), laughing during sex, learning by my mistakes and growing from them, legs, lingerie (wearing), looking innocent but being kinky, making her cum so hard and wet she is almost embarrassed by the mess., making you do whatever the fuck i feel like, when i want it, how i want it, and you will like it because i like it, male chests and shoulders, masochism (everything to do with it), massages (receiving), masturbation (everything to do with it), men who can make me laugh, men who mean what they say and follow through,men with long hair, multiple orgasms (everything to do with it), music, mutual masturbation (everything to do with it), nipples (everything to do with it), non judgemental people, older men (silver foxes), oral sex (everything to do with it), oral sex while playing video games (giving), pantyhose/stockings(wearing), people with integrity (everything to do with it), pigtails, poetry,reading to and being read to, real men, not little boys who think they are,rough sex (everything to do with it), savoring the taste of his cum in my mouth, schoolgirl uniform (wearing), science fiction/cyberpunk/fantasy, self bondage, sensory overload (receiving), sensual poetry, skirts, smile damn it, im trying to make you smile, snuggling, snuggling and cuddling all day long, spanking (receiving), strong men that are into strong women,submissive's that treat female and male dominants equal respectful,talking dirty (everything to do with it), talking non-stop for hours, tit fucking,touching, tough, empathetic, and passionate dominants, toys (everything to do with it), treat her like a lady, fuck her like a slut, unconditional love(everything to do with it), vibrators (everything to do with it), waking up to the soft caress of his hand, writing poetry.

Curious about: anal hooks, anal sex (receiving), bare bottom spanking(everything to do with it), biting (everything to do with it), breath play (receiving),candle wax (receiving), chains (receiving), choking (receiving), cross dressing(everything to do with it), deep throating, exhibitionism (everything to do with it),face fucking, fisting (receiving), foot/feet (everything to do with it), fucked and/or played with while sleeping or half awake, gangbangs (everything to do with it), hair pulling (everything to do with it), handcuffs, humiliation(everything to do with it), latex (wearing), leather (wearing), master/slave, pain(everything to do with it), pet play (everything to do with it), pinching (everything to do with it), power exchange (everything to do with it), rimming (everything to do with it), role play (everything to do with it), sensory deprivation (everything to do with it), sex in public (everything to do with it),