What I seek in a slave or submissive for a committed LTR will follow....but first let me offer 2 other aspects in which I am intensively involved in the Fetish community.

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2.[DakaDom.com][http://dakadom.com] For over 12 years I have  been a professional advocate, guide, or counselor for those seeking to untangle their desires for Fetish, Kink, D/s, or BDSM from the cultural shame, fear, morality or parental and inner self judgment that may interfere with or inhibit the full and joyous expression of that authentic desire. I work with singles and couples in my private practice in Portland or via Skype, and conduct workshops and present at national sacred-sexuality or fetish conferences on the sacred, ritual, empowering and healing aspects of owning our sexual truth. See my website for more details.

What I seek in a slave or submissive...__

I am ultimately looking for a long term, mythically romantic, loving, committed M/s or D/s relationship with an intelligent, spiritual, sophisticated, perverse, sexy, slutty, emotionally-mature, submissive, erotic-pain slut.

In relationship, I combine the tender, noble side of M/s with a very dark-edged BDSM intensity.

I am intelligent, skilled, playful, sexy, Dominant, nasty, dark-edged, compassionate, spiritual, soulful, tender and masculine.

I look at D/s and BDSM as a lifestyle that can be held in a sacred way, along with erotic, physical, soulful intimacy.

I have nearly 15 years
real time experience in the local and national scene, while remaining
discrete. I have a well-equipped, private play space.

In relationship, exploration, training or play, my process is to start in
your comfort zone, and at a pace right for you, uncover what is true and
take you beyond your comfort zone when you are ready. Your physical and
emotional safety are a priority for me. This is my sacred duty as a human,
Dom and erotic guide. I approach D/s as a sacred practice.

I am also, under the right circumstances, a "Mentor Dom", open to training, mentoring and
guided-exploration for those just beginning or seeking to find their dark
edge in a safe, honorable negotiated manner.

I view this lifestyle in two distinct dimensions.The D/s aspect, the
relationship side, and the BDSM aspect, the erotic/sexual side.
The D/s aspect involves the consciously polarized day to day or moment to
moment interaction between the Dominant and the submissive.
It's essence is noble and mythic/romantic. The Dom can express the King or
Queen archetype - giver of blessings, bearer of joy, the wise sage elder,
set the vision, guide and teach, keep order, set clear agreements and
boundaries etc. The submissive can fully embrace devotion, service,
surrender, attentiveness, nurturing energy et al. It is usually part of an
ongoing relationship, but aspects do come into play in a scene or session.
The BDSM side, the erotic/sexual side, is dark energy, the taboo, the
things that should never be done, things that hurt, that are cruel, savage
wildness.
It can also be tender and sensual, if that is the preference, or the two
styles can be mixed. The sensual and the D/s side, is where many people
like to keep their energy. But there are those who are drawn to stretch it
out to the dark edges.

In ritual the "dark" side or shadow energy can be explored expressed and
honored. These shadows can be predator/prey, rapist/victim,
Daddy/daughter, stud/slut, abuser/abused or any combo you can imagine.
They can be drawn to inflicting or receiving physical or emotional pain,
degradation, objectification or humiliation. I work with my partner to develop a level of trust
and create a ritual path where these dark energies can be safely revealed,
explored, and expressed.

I explore the psychological interplay of D/s, BDSM and power exchange. I
find the mythic archetypal energy of Dom/sub, and other ritual polarities
to have a deep rooted, sacred heritage...and can carry a highly erotic
emotional charge when embodied. I strive to achieve these states thru the
rituals of D/s and BDSM. There also may be healing aspects to exploring
these dynamics and embodying these dark, hidden energies...and at times
supportively examining the issues that may block their expression.

I am also a ritual Dominant erotic sadist. The intent is Eros for me...
to heighten the sexual intensity. Thru power exchange and sweetening the
pain with erotic stimulation, we can blur the lines of pleasure/pain.
In the BDSM context I explore the shadows, the taboo, the forbidden and
"inappropriate". I am not a TOP or sensation player, just out for the
thrill of beating someone. There has to be a compelling erotic,
psychological, emotional charge.

I am also actively involved in a variety of communities from ecstatic
dance, men's work, sacred sexuality, training adult male mentors for teen boys and others. I am
a creative type - musician/composer (see reverbnation.com/galenfous ), inventor (tetruss.com and dreamcatchergloves.com) author (google - The Sharp Edge of Love) and entrepreneur.

I do not want to waste time, mine or others, I ask the same...

If what you
read truly compels you and you are sincere, I invite you to review my sites and reply thru the email from that site with questions,
more about what your desires look like, experience, hard limits,
availability, pic(s), your intention in replying etc.I can also offer
local references of subs who have trained with me. I am open to
exploration training and casual play, but for the right one a long term
D/s relationship is what I seek.